Be Direct about what you are looking for
Being Direct will save you a lot of time and filter many people who are not looking for what you are looking for. For this reason, it is important to be truthful to yourself and others about what you want and need. Don’t be afraid to share that early on when getting to know someone. Trust me, the people worth your time and investment will be attracted to the fact that you know what you want, especially those who are looking for the same thing. Keep in mind the right one will always stay.
How they treat you early on in the dating is how they will continue to treat you in the future
Not a lot of people realize it but the way someone treats you is the way they will continue to treat you in the future. With that being said if there is something that bothers you or something you don’t like when it comes to the way they treat you it is important that you communicate that early on because if you don’t say anything because you don’t want to seem a type of way or ruin a moment they are going to think you’re ok with it. Then in the future, if you say something they are going to seem confused as to why it’s a problem if you don’t say anything in the past. In a healthy relationship, it is important that you feel safe to express how you feel.
Don’t have your first Date at a guy’s house
If a guy ever wants to invite you on a first date in their house I would be concerned about what their intentions are. A date at their house shows a lack of effort in courtship because they are not going out of their way to at least try to impress you at least with something whether it’s planning a dinner reservation or planning a fun activity to do such as going go-cart racing. Something that states that he is trying to be memorable and have a fun time with you. Going to his place might also just be an easy way to get you to sleep with him with no effort or investment.
Value actions instead of words
Anyone can make promises and say all the things you want to hear but not many will keep their promises and go the extra mile for you and that’s ok because that is how you will be able to measure who is worth your time. Trust me in that the right person will do everything in their power to make you happy.
Don’t confuse anxiousness with attraction
It’s one thing to be anxious on the first date but another to continue to be months later. If that is the case for you I would encourage you to ask yourself if you feel comfortable opening up about how you feel with that person. Because if not it would be interesting to explore that more.
